黑化，長什麼樣子?
giver 犧牲者(也是拯救者)——只看得見別人的需要，看不見自己的;甘心樂意為人犧牲，習慣用滿足別人來存在。「感受到被需要」，是胎兒期最大的需要。The giver — also the rescuer. Sees everyone's needs but never his own; gladly sacrifices; exists by meeting others' needs. To feel needed is the unborn stage's deepest need.
孔雀——橫跨嬰兒到兒童期，但孔雀沒有力量:情緒年齡還在嬰兒期(公主病、entitlement 都住在這裡)。The peacock — spans baby to child, but it has no power: the emotional age is still baby (princess syndrome and entitlement live here).
31 個王——兒童期後期，拿到話語權的紅利，就掉進權力的陷阱。孔雀沒有力量，王有——這是關鍵的分辨。The 31 kings — late in the child stage, the dividend of having a voice becomes a power trap. The peacock has no power; the kings do — that is the key discernment.
偽成熟——知識大過生命。(跟拯救者、孔雀一樣，是橫跨階段的症狀，哪一站都可能長出來。)Pseudo-maturity — knowledge outgrown life. (Like the rescuer and the peacock, a symptom that spans stages.)